You are single, bored and you just have nothing 

to do. It is another miserable day like the day before. You need someone to talk to and you are turning on the computer, browsing some… dating sites. There are so many people… singles like you are.

What should you ask from them? Can they change 

your life for better?

The answer to the last question is up to you. 

Would you let a person you have met online to change your life? Are you willing to do this? Do 

you trust someone you have met this way?

Some people simply do not have the courage to let an online relationship to develop and change in a 

normal healthy relationship. Are you one of them?

Let me re-ensure you that online relationships really are working, and yes it can change your entire life, in a good way. :)

But there are some impediments or mistakes which 

are leading to the end of the relationship 

between two people that could have had a good 

future together:

1. First of all if you do not take people you are 

taking to too seriously, you will be treated the 

the same way.

2. Being too secret and reserved. If you do not 

tell things about you and you are not working to 

develop a relationship, nobody will make this for 

you.

3. Trust or lack of trust is the biggest impediment of an eRelathionship. You have to try to get the people you are taking to trust in you, 

and then find out if that person is a trustworthy one. There are so many ways to check out this.

4. Being shy. If you are interested in someone and you want to meet her/him offline, let her/him know this. What do you have to lose?

5. Fear of disappointment or fear of becoming a 

victim of someone with bad intentions can make you paranoid. It is good to be preventive but not exaggerate about this. It is not funny and will pull people away.

6. Unbelieving. If you do not believe that an 

eRelathionship can become something more than it 

is, you will not pay too much attention and… 

You get exactly what you give and some more, don’

t you?

7. Do not make that relationship a priority in your life. Any human needs to feel that is important for someone, that is the centre of someone life, even if you have met that human online. Don’t you feel the same? Wouldn’t you pay 

more attention to someone if you would know that you are a priority in his/her life?

8. Not making the next step. Talking online can 

be fun but it is not enough to get to know a 

a person better and after a while, it can become 

boring. Talking on the phone can help you two to 

develop the relationship and do not forget that 

you can feel chemistry only when you two are 

meeting face to face, touching each other, 

feeling the smell of her/his perfume.

9. Being insincere, pretending that you are 

something that you are not will lead you 

eventually to the end of any relationship. So be 

honest from the very beginning, maybe you have 

just meat the much of your life, don’t take the 

the risk to lose her because of a stupid mistake.

10. Thinking that online dating sites are some 

kind of shops where you can find a lover like you 

find a pair of shoes, and if you are breaking the 

shoes you can go back to that shop and buy 

another pair just like the first. It is not true, 

every human, every soul is unique. If you lose 

her/him it is for good. So I am sure that you 

will have problems as all couples have but it 

is worthy to make the effort to solve these 

problems together.

Be happy that technology gives you the chance to meet your match online, but do not waste this chance, it could never come back to you.

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